Knowing Your History is (Psychologically) Valuable!

by John L. Ward

Emory University research professor Marshall Duke and colleagues show the value of children knowing the family history. The benefits?

  • Better functioning family;
  • More resilient children;
  • Higher self-esteem of children, and
  • More self-confidence and self-competence for them.

This happens, they argue, because knowing your family’s history provides:

  • Meaning beyond the self, which brings feelings of strength and stability (intergenerational self);
  • Stronger belief that one is able to influence one’s destiny (locus of control);
  • A security from a longer perspective on time (anchoring).

They recommend:

  • Tell family stories over dinner…
  • …especially stories about the parents before the children were born, and
  • Relate where grandparents came from and what their work was.

Business families have remarkable and compelling stories to share with their children, for great value to the family and the business.

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