A large family business in the Midwest with an active – and highly effective – Family Council has been struggling recently with two nagging questions:
- Should the bulk of Family Council work be done by one designated leader, or should it be spread out among committees and committee chairs?
- Should we pay Family Council leaders and committee members for their time and efforts? If so – how much pay is reasonable?
Clearly, on the first question, a ‘both/and’ approach is desired, but not always easy to accomplish.
One strong, designated leader provides efficiency and clear accountability, but can also lead to a de-motivated and disconnected family. Relying too much on one person for a long period of time may lead to their burnout, with no prepared successor. Others in the family may not fully develop their leadership abilities or have the pleasure of serving as leader.
On the other hand, an active group of committee members and committee chairs provides a wider family connection and fosters family passion and commitment, but can take a lot more time to get things accomplished. It’s hard to hold a group accountable for results, and the Family Council can bog down in the face of multiple, often diverging approaches and opinions.
This paradox – the need for both “Strong Centralized Leader and Strong Dispersed Group” – is probably very familiar to you. Although at first the two appear to be mutually exclusive, upon closer examination we can see that they actually support each other. A strong individual leader will foster strength in committees, and strong committees create conditions for strong individual leadership.
Have you faced this common tension – and if so, what has been your experience?
We’ll talk about Family Council compensation later this week… stay tuned.